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Monday, October 7, 2013

Bahayanya 'Comfort Zone' 1

Dalam hubungan mesti ada pasang surut kan...

Kadang, bila kita da secure dengan relationship, we tend to be ignorant. Kalau dulu kita lain, benda hal kecil2 kita jaga lagi, tapi sekarang... Kecil2 hal tu, langsung tak penting dimata kita.

Aku amik satu situasi.
Si M bukan nama sebenar cakap, dulu jalan ngan laki dia pegang tangan, tapi sekarang... Laki jalan dulu, dia ngan anak ikut belakang. Memang la benda tu somehow nampak kecik je dimata kita, tapi pada insan yang merasa? Kita tak tahu. Kalau dulu kita pegang tangan dia, takkan sekarang da tak heran nak pegang tangan dia? Come on la, she's giving you a baby. Kalau dulu dia cantik ramping, tapi sekarang dia tak secantik dulu, ye la dia nak kena jaga anak itu ini, ingat senang ke nak beranak? Huhu!

Sampaila M ni cakap kat aku, pastu aku senyap2, forward mesej viber dia kat laki dia. And sekarang aku tengok jalan pun da sama2 semula. Alhamdulillah.. =) Kadang kita lepas pandang, bini memang la jalan pelan2 bawak anak, tapi dia tu nonong je di depan.

Typical man la kan, masa mula2 nak mengorat dulu bukan main lagi itu ini nya.  Pada kita benda kecil2 pun dia prihatin lagi. Tapi bila da go on for a long time in a relationship, bila da stabil, bila da in comfort Zone they didnt really care and concern at the small things. 

Kalau dulu si S dengan pakwe dia selalu berbalas mesej, tapi bila da 1,2 tahun bersama nak text sms 5 keping shari pun payah, senang cerita call je. Mula2, tiap2 hari call 30minit, lama2 15 minit.. Pastu 5minit je. Jadi, kalau ko hilang makwe ko nanti, ko jangan sibuk2 nak gelabah. Ko yang abaikan dia dulu, take for granted. You just giving chance to others to be better than you. 

Ini semua bukan aku saja reka, tapi ni semua kisah kawan2 aku. Aku banyak jadi bahu tempat sahabat teman meluahkan rasa. Kadang bila da lama bersama, keadaan akan jadi suram. Memang orang cakap senang, haa kawin je la cepat2, tapi kita tak tahu masalah dorang. Kalau da rasa  relationship da muram, masam kusam, cuba cari cara nak spice up semula, macam mula2 kenal dulu. Ada banyak cara, cari dalam buku, cari dalam internet. Bersepah2, please give some efforts to save ur relationship! ^_^

Kisah entri aku kali ini, ada dinyanyikan oleh Pink. Hakikatnya jalan cerita cinta macam ni sering berlaku dalam hubungan. Beware with 'Comfort zone'!


Cuba renungkan bait2 lirik lagi Pink ni :3
Pink ft. Nate Ruess

Right from the start
You were a thief
You stole my heart
And I your willing victim
I let you see the parts of me
That weren't all that pretty
And with every touch you fixed them

Now you've been talking in your sleep, oh, oh
Things you never say to me, oh, oh
Tell me that you've had enough
Of our love, our love

Just give me a reason
Just a little bit's enough
Just a second we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
It's in the stars
It's been written in the scars on our hearts
We're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again

I'm sorry I don't understand
Where all of this is coming from
I thought that we were fine
(Oh, we had everything)
Your head is running wild again
My dear we still have everythin'
And it's all in your mind
(Yeah, but this is happenin')

You've been havin' real bad dreams, oh, oh
You still lie so close to me, oh, oh
There's nothing more than empty sheets
Between our love, our love
Oh, our love, our love

Just give me a reason
Just a little bit's enough
Just a second we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
I never stopped
You're still written in the scars on my heart
You're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again

Oh, tear ducts and rust
I'll fix it for us
We're collecting dust
But our love's enough
You're holding it in
You're pouring a drink
No nothing is as bad as it seems
We'll come clean
.............................

Si lelaki tu cakap... 
'I thought that we were fine'...
Sebenarnya, dia langsung tak tahu, yang sikap dia tu sendiri membunuh hubungan mereka. Please, dont be ignorant, dont take someone for granted after giving big effort to win her/his heart.

Sekian,
Happy reading... =)




Nota kaki: hey Benji, i miss the old us, the way we used to be. Sending silly remix techno song, ET, wiggle2 yeah.. Blaa blaa... And yet, i miss the crazy code we used to play around. But now, it is really hard for me to get a damn reply comment from you. Even mentioning ur name, you wont come up. Anyway, the old Benji always win my heart. He is the reason why i put him in my heart. But seems now, i lost my Benji. I've seen Dody and his partner, i've seen Zatil situation. Indeed, you already know how is Dody and the rest... Em im sad for ur lost Benji. Perhaps we should take a break. Farewell.


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